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I am so blessed in my life as I'm able to help people in relationships to find their way. I can help them to find solutions to their problems, fix their relationships, or learn how to move on from the wrong or unhealthy relationships. I get a unique human perspective that many do not see or know. In my knowledge in helping people, I've also learned quite a bit for myself. That being said, I think it's important to share some of this with everyone who may need it.
Unconditional love means you love someone totally and fully no matter what. You accept them for who they are and even if there are things you don't like, you realize in the grand scheme of things you are also not perfect therefore the problems aren't really problems. They're simply things you work to move past... together. You don't let the one you love fall down and if they do, you offer them your hand to get back up. You're always there for them as they are for you. Most people do not understand what unconditional love is and until they experience, they think they know what love means. Trust me, you don't until you feel absolute and total love for someone who is imperfect just like you and loves you back in the very same way. It's earth shattering. It's not all puppies and rainbows... it's work but you don't mind it because you love the person SO much that you cannot imagine your life without them.
Do not confuse this with people who cling to someone who doesn't love them back, is purposefully abusive, is married to someone else, etc... There are many out there trying to fill their time, void, or broken hearts with the wrong partners. They shut down and tell the next person after they've had a heartbreak "I will never treat someone as good as I did him/her". This person you're with telling you something like this isn't ready and is still carrying baggage. You fill find this out when you break up and the next person they are with gets put on a pedestal that you weren't allowed to be on. They've worked through things and healed through learning with you even though it didn't work out with you.
You get upset when you see the person move on after you in a way that he/she never was with you and it's like a slap to the face. However, you also see the love you now had from having learned what you needed to from that person as well. You maybe have more self love, higher standards, better morals, or have just healed from other past hurts.
Whatever the situation may be, relationships are hard. None of them are without effort. When someone gets into a relationship, they aren't always fully committed and that means that the first sign of trouble, they're out. If they stick around for awhile, they'll keep building resentments against this partner for all the things they do wrong... they'll nitpick to find every flaw this person is and then they'll decide to move on. Some even go so far as to get married but they realize that they just aren't willing to put in the work to figure out how to compromise or accept the person for who they are so they just leave. This isn't love. In fact, it appears as though it is but if there is no compromise or work, it's not the real thing.
Yes, I also have the ability to use the Zodiac to help some people with their relationships too. Tarot? Yes. I have plenty of tactics I can use but mostly the advice I give to relationships in peril or for someone suffering a broken heart comes from my vast years of learning. Some is my own experience and some is from all the people I've helped over the years.
There is so much I can say here on this topic but Unconditional Love is something that is outside this mortal coil that we're part of. It's something that is felt on "the other side" more often than it is here. However, there is a rare time when people DO experience it here and when it happens, it's absolutely mind blowing and life shattering. Some in good ways and some in totally unexpected ways. Some makes you feel overwhelmed but mostly, you realize that you now understand what love really and truly is and what it takes to make a relationship last.
If you are having relationship issues, are confused, sad, angry, happy, or uncertain about what you're doing with or without a partner, I may actually be able to help you. Please email me for more information on what means may be best for me to guide you forward. I may not tell you "yes he/she is the one" and I may not say "yes, he'll leave his wife for you" but I WILL tell you the truth and I will help you get through it to move forward OR to help you heal what you've got depending on what is going on.
If you need help, you can visit my website at: http://www.jendevillier.com , Visit my Facebook Store at: https://www.facebook.com/Jen.Devillier/shop/ or Email me for more information at: Jen@JenDevillier.com
My services are not free as I've got far too many clients seeking out my assistance and there is no way I can keep up. This is my life and therefore to help others, I stay at home and offer my services with the best and most affordable options possible. Please keep in mind, I am not a licensed therapist so do not consider me to be a medical consultant. You should always check with your physician if you need medical assistance. Otherwise, if you'd like my knowledge and help, I can surely give you my best. Anyone drawn to me is typically someone I CAN help. When I cannot, I will certainly let the person know that I'm not the right option for them. This happens very few and between, however.
Thank you for reading and blessings to everyone who is in need of tender loving care!
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